Online Therapy: How to Find Personal and Supportive Ways to Emotional Equilibrium

I am deeply committed to the provision of digital therapy. Every person who connects with me online should be really heard and embraced, as if they had visited a physical office. I am aware this may sound like a high-sounding promise, but new generations of video-calling technology have made virtual sessions remarkably similar to in-person visits. All it takes is clicking on a link to be connected from the comfort of your living room or home office-or wherever feels most comfortable-to a trained counsellor.

Feeling Comfortable in Virtual Sessions

I understand that authentic sharing and real conversation depend on trust. When you choose an online session, I commit to offering a welcoming tone, strong privacy safeguards, and professional guidance. Whether you’re battling stress, carrying grief, or simply feeling stuck, online therapy might help you speak more openly than you would face to face. Sharing vulnerable truths can sometimes be easier when you’re already in a space you recognize as safe.

Why Pick Online Therapy?

Convenience and Accessibility: Scheduling an online session means there’s no commute, no planning around traffic, and fewer concerns about arriving late. You can organize an appointment during a lunch break or after the workday wraps up.

Potential Savings: The cost of an online session is sometimes more manageable than visiting a therapist’s office, and there are often multiple payment choices (including subscription models).

Familiar Format: Many of us text, email, or use social media every day. This constant connection through screens can make digital counselling feel normal and relaxed.

Reaching Those Far Away: People in smaller towns or rural communities, as well as those with long-term illnesses or physical limitations, might find that phone and video therapy are easier options to explore.

Does It Really Work?

While some professionals remain cautious about distance-based counselling, there is growing proof that it is at least as effective as in-person care. The respected medical journal The Lancet, for instance, shared a study demonstrating that digital cognitive behavioural therapy can successfully address depression. Telephone-based discussions have also been recognized as highly helpful for those struggling with low mood.

Moreover, as an existential counsellor and therapist in-training who pays special attention to the big questions that shape our lives: how we experience the passing of time, how we occupy personal space, and how we express our true selves in relationship with another person. Even though our conversations may take place across a screen, the search for deeper meaning does not fade. Sometimes, it can feel more powerful when you’re speaking from your own familiar environment—where your authentic reactions can emerge naturally.

Existential work often centrs on the “I-thou” exchange, a heartfelt dynamic where two people meet as full individuals, without masks or defences. A lot of people seem to think this closeness is necessarily absent in virtual platforms, but what I think I’ve found is the opposite: our online meetings could allow us to be more saliently present and actual to one another. Maybe by virtue of coming into therapy in your home or wherever, you may find talking about these bottom-line questions of existence not only safe but amazingly straightforward.

Getting Started with a Video Session

Many of my clients appreciate being able to see their counsellor’s facial expressions and body language. That’s why live video chats have grown popular. If you choose this approach, we’ll arrange an initial call or email exchange to go over your background and check that your technology is set up properly. When the therapy begins, find a place in your home where you can speak freely. Some people even use noise-canceling headphones or ask their housemates to give them some privacy.

Confidentiality and Feeling Secure

You have a right to expect that your personal information is protected. I rely on trustworthy, encrypted platforms for video and voice sessions so our conversations remain private. It might help to switch off any voice-activated assistants and silence other devices while you talk. We can also agree on what to do if the internet connection drops, such as switching to a phone call.

What to Expect

Online counselling is very similar to being in the same room with a therapist. You’ll be encouraged to explore any worries, uneasy feelings, or experiences with zero judgment. Some sessions may be shorter or more regular than a face-to-face format—this all depends on our mutual preference. Through gentle questioning and thoughtful reflection, we’ll attempt to shed light on patterns that keep you feeling trapped, aiming to develop new ways of coping and moving forward.

Free First Chat

If you’re unsure about jumping into therapy, I offer a short, free phone or video chat for you to decide if my style feels right. This way, you can ask questions and talk about whatever is on your mind before committing to full sessions.

Find Support—Wherever You Are

If meeting in person isn’t realistic for you, online therapy can fill that gap. In a calming virtual space, we’ll work together to address stress, sadness, relationship tensions, and other challenges that arise. The crucial part is that you’re reaching out and allowing yourself the possibility of relief and greater well-being, one conversation at a time.

 

GET IN TOUCH

Preliminary session

I offer a complimentary 15-20 minute phone or online consultation for you to determine if you would like to work with me and for me to gain a better understanding of your reasons for seeking assistance and how I can help you. Please reach out to schedule a mutually suitable time for this initial meeting.

During our first session I will get to know your situation and this will be an opportunity for you to understand and get a feel for whether you are comfortable working with me and my approach.

We will discuss the issues that have brought you to me and how we can explore them together, as well as my confidentiality policy, fees, appointment times and absences.

 

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