{"id":7523,"date":"2026-02-15T13:37:47","date_gmt":"2026-02-15T13:37:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/?p=7523"},"modified":"2026-02-15T14:13:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-15T14:13:41","slug":"aiz-romantisma-kas-patiesiba-liek-milestibai-notureties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/aiz-romantisma-kas-patiesiba-liek-milestibai-notureties\/","title":{"rendered":"Aiz romantisma: kas paties\u012bb\u0101 liek m\u012blest\u012bbai notur\u0113ties"},"content":{"rendered":"

K\u0101p\u0113c ar \u201c\u012bpa\u0161o saj\u016btu\u201d nepietiek un kas parasti notur attiec\u012bbas, t\u0101 viet\u0101<\/p>\n

Ir fr\u0101ze, ko pied\u0113v\u0113 janomami (Amazones pamatiedz\u012bvot\u0101ju tautai), pie kuras es atkal un atkal atgrie\u017eos, jo t\u0101 nosauc to, ko m\u0113s parasti romantiz\u0113jam, nevis atpaz\u012bstam: Ya pihi irakema \u2014 \u201cEsmu ticis pies\u0101r\u0146ots ar tavu b\u016bt\u012bbu.\u201d<\/p>\n

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T\u0101 ir tie\u0161a. Bez sentimenta. Un t\u0101 prec\u012bzi no\u0137er, ko m\u012blest\u012bba paties\u012bb\u0101 izdara, kad t\u0101 ir \u012bsta: t\u0101 tevi izmaina. Ne k\u0101 sol\u012bjumu. Ne k\u0101 izr\u0101di. K\u0101 faktu.<\/p>\n

Un tom\u0113r \u2014 p\u0113c \u0161\u012bs \u201cpies\u0101r\u0146o\u0161anas\u201d, p\u0113c zv\u0113restiem, fotogr\u0101fij\u0101m, p\u0113c \u201cuz m\u016b\u017eu\u201d valodas \u2014 daudzas attiec\u012bbas beidzas.<\/p>\n

T\u0101tad kas sabr\u016bk?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kl\u012bniskaj\u0101 darb\u0101 es reti redzu, ka m\u012blest\u012bba vienk\u0101r\u0161i \u201cpaz\u016bd\u201d t\u012br\u0101, skaidri nolas\u0101m\u0101 veid\u0101. Bie\u017e\u0101k sabr\u016bk konstrukcija, ko cilv\u0113ki ap m\u012blest\u012bbu uzb\u016bv\u0113ju\u0161i \u2014 gaidas, netie\u0161ie l\u012bgumi, mitolo\u0123ija. Saj\u016bta var\u0113ja b\u016bt \u012bsta. Ta\u010du ietvars nebija b\u016bv\u0113ts t\u0101, lai iztur\u0113tu dz\u012bvi.<\/p>\n

Romantiskais m\u012bts<\/h3>\n

Romantisms mums iedeva dv\u0113selesradiniekus, likteni un sol\u012bjumu, ka \u201cpareizais\u201d cilv\u0113ks m\u016bs pabeigs un vientul\u012bba izzud\u012bs. V\u0113sturiski tas ir sal\u012bdzino\u0161i jauns st\u0101sts: romantisms k\u0101 kult\u016bras kust\u012bba ir vien aptuveni 250 gadus veca, un liel\u0101ko da\u013cu cilv\u0113ces v\u0113stures partner\u012bba bija galvenok\u0101rt pragmatiska \u2014 izdz\u012bvo\u0161ana, zeme, dzimta, b\u0113rnu audzin\u0101\u0161ana.<\/p>\n

M\u016bsdienu st\u0101sts ir skaist\u0101ks. Un vienlaikus trausl\u0101ks.<\/p>\n

Jo m\u012bts aicina m\u016bs uztic\u0113ties vienai lietai p\u0101ri visam: instinktam. Tai \u201c\u012bpa\u0161ajai saj\u016btai\u201d. Instinkts var b\u016bt gudrs, bet tas autom\u0101tiski nav uzticams. Da\u017ereiz tas nav gudrums. Da\u017ereiz tas ir kondicion\u0113jums.<\/p>\n

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why relationships fail even when there is love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Paz\u012bstamais nav tas pats, kas sader\u012bgais<\/h3>\n

Viena no ne\u0113rtaj\u0101m liet\u0101m, ko iem\u0101cies no piesaistes teorijas (un vienk\u0101r\u0161i v\u0113rojot \u012bstus p\u0101rus ilg\u0101k\u0101 laik\u0101), ir \u0161\u012b: m\u0113s ne vienm\u0113r izv\u0113lamies to, kas m\u016bs dara vesel\u0101kus. M\u0113s bie\u017ei izv\u0113lamies to, kas \u0161\u0137iet paz\u012bstams.<\/p>\n

Paz\u012bstamais var izskat\u012bties k\u0101 \u201c\u0137\u012bmija\u201d: atpaz\u012b\u0161ana, neizb\u0113gam\u012bba, likten\u012bgums. Ta\u010du tas var b\u016bt ar\u012b veca attiec\u012bbu sh\u0113ma, kas atgrie\u017eas jaun\u0101 \u0137ermen\u012b \u2014 emocion\u0101la distance, kas aktiviz\u0113 vaj\u0101\u0161anu; neparedzam\u012bba, kas tur tevi trauksm\u0113; siltums, kas savijas ar atk\u0101p\u0161anos, t\u0101 ka tu iem\u0101cies str\u0101d\u0101t par drupa\u010d\u0101m.<\/p>\n

T\u0101p\u0113c tas elektriskais \u201cviss \u2014 \u0161is ir \u012bstais\u201d p\u0101rdz\u012bvojums ne vienm\u0113r ir kompass, kas r\u0101da uz dro\u0161\u012bbu vai piem\u0113rot\u012bbu. Tas var b\u016bt spogulis \u2014 atspogu\u013cojot to, ko iem\u0101c\u012bjies agr\u012bni, ar\u012b to, kas s\u0101p\u0113ja.<\/p>\n

Tas nav dom\u0101ts k\u0101 cinisms. Tas ir dom\u0101ts k\u0101 sviras punkts.<\/p>\n

Jo br\u012bd\u012b, kad cilv\u0113ks sp\u0113j nosaukt savu modeli, tas vairs vi\u0146u tik akli nevada. Vi\u0146\u0161 var s\u0101kt izv\u0113l\u0113ties, nevis atk\u0101rtot. Un tie\u0161i \u0161\u012b p\u0101reja \u2014 no \u201cmani velk\u201d uz \u201ces apzinos\u201d \u2014 bie\u017ei ir vieta, kur s\u0101kas kaut kas l\u012bdz\u012bgs nobriedu\u0161ai m\u012blest\u012bbai.<\/p>\n

Lab\u0101ki jaut\u0101jumi nek\u0101 \u201cVai es to j\u016btu?\u201d<\/h3>\n

Gottmana instit\u016bta p\u0113t\u012bjumi \u0161eit ir noder\u012bgi, jo tie piev\u0113r\u0161 uzman\u012bbu p\u0101riem p\u0113c medusm\u0113ne\u0161a ap\u017eilbin\u0101juma, kad par\u0101d\u0101s \u012bst\u0101 dz\u012bves viela: stress, nogurums, aizvainojums, sal\u0101p\u012b\u0161ana p\u0113c konfliktiem. Tas, kas parasti iz\u0161\u0137ir, ir maz\u0101k po\u0113tisks, nek\u0101 m\u0113s grib\u0113tu, un praktisk\u0101ks.<\/p>\n

Tr\u012bs jaut\u0101jumi izgrie\u017e cauri romantiskajai miglai:<\/h4>\n

1) Vai tu patiesi b\u016btu draugs ar \u0161o cilv\u0113ku ar\u012b bez pievilc\u012bbas un kop\u012bgiem pl\u0101niem?<\/strong>
\nNevis \u201cVai es vi\u0146u gribu?\u201d, bet: parast\u0101 otrdien\u0101 \u2014 vai es izv\u0113l\u0113tos vi\u0146a sabiedr\u012bbu? Vi\u0146a pr\u0101tu. Kl\u0101tb\u016btni. Klusumu.<\/p>\n

2) Vai es cienu, k\u0101ds vi\u0146\u0161 ir, kad es neesmu publika?<\/strong>
\nK\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 izturas pret tiem, kuri neko nevar dot pret\u012b. K\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 r\u012bkojas ar varu. Vai vi\u0146a v\u0113rt\u012bbas turas, kad neviens neskat\u0101s.<\/p>\n

3) Vai es varu pie\u0146emt to, kas, visticam\u0101k, nemain\u012bsies?<\/strong>
\nNevis paciest. Nevis slepeni tirgoties. Pie\u0146emt. Nek\u0101rt\u012bbu. St\u012bvumu. Vajadz\u012bbu p\u0113c telpas. Temperamentu. To, k\u0101 konflikts ietriecas vi\u0146a nervu sist\u0113m\u0101. Ja tas paliek, vai es joproj\u0101m varu vi\u0146u izv\u0113l\u0113ties?<\/p>\n

Tie nav romantiski jaut\u0101jumi. Tie ir attiec\u012bbu jaut\u0101jumi. Tie p\u0101rvieto tevi no j\u016btu re\u017e\u012bma uz redz\u0113\u0161anas re\u017e\u012bmu \u2014 no projekcijas uz atpaz\u012b\u0161anu.<\/p>\n

Jaut\u0101jums, no kura izvair\u0101mies<\/h3>\n

Praks\u0113 zem \u0161iem trim bie\u017ei ir ceturtais jaut\u0101jums \u2014 t\u0101ds, kas uz randi\u0146a gandr\u012bz nekad nepar\u0101d\u0101s:<\/p>\n

K\u0101di ir mani attiec\u012bbu mode\u013ci, un k\u0101 tie izpau\u017eas, kad tuv\u012bba k\u013c\u016bst \u012bsta?
\nVai vienk\u0101r\u0161\u0101k: k\u0101 es k\u013c\u016bstu gr\u016bti m\u012blams\/-a?<\/p>\n

Tas nav mor\u0101ls spriedums. Tas ir ce\u013c\u0161 uz sevis izzin\u0101\u0161anu.<\/p>\n

Mums visiem ir aizsardz\u012bbas. M\u0113s atk\u0101pjamies, m\u0113s dzenamies paka\u013c, m\u0113s kontrol\u0113jam, m\u0113s sabr\u016bkam, m\u0113s intelektualiz\u0113jam, m\u0113s apburam, m\u0113s apklustam, m\u0113s piepras\u0101m dro\u0161\u012bbu. Liel\u0101k\u0101 da\u013ca \u0161o strat\u0113\u0123iju s\u0101k\u0101s k\u0101 adapt\u0101cijas \u2014 veidi, k\u0101 izdz\u012bvot agr\u012bn\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s. Probl\u0113ma ir t\u0101, ka tas, kas toreiz pasarg\u0101ja, tagad bie\u017ei sagroza tuv\u012bbu.<\/p>\n

Romantisk\u0101 fant\u0101zija iesaka, ka \u201c\u012bstais\u201d partneris \u0161os mode\u013cus neitraliz\u0113s. Kl\u012bnisk\u0101 realit\u0101te ir skarb\u0101ka un cer\u012bg\u0101ka: mode\u013ci par\u0101d\u012bsies, un darbs ir iem\u0101c\u012bties tos atpaz\u012bt kop\u0101, pirms tie saciet\u0113 nicin\u0101jum\u0101.<\/p>\n

To var saukt par attiec\u012bbu drosmi.<\/p>\n

Trijst\u016bris, kas notur<\/h3>\n

Roberta Sternberga m\u012blest\u012bbas trijst\u016bra teorija iedod valodu tam, ko p\u0101ri bie\u017ei j\u016bt, bet nesp\u0113j noformul\u0113t. Vi\u0146\u0161 apraksta m\u012blest\u012bbu k\u0101 tr\u012bs savstarp\u0113ji mijiedarb\u012bgas sast\u0101vda\u013cas:<\/p>\n

Intimit\u0101te<\/strong>: tuv\u012bba, uztic\u0113\u0161an\u0101s, emocion\u0101la saikne<\/p>\n

Kaisle<\/strong>: v\u0113lme, pievilc\u012bba, romantisk\u0101 ener\u0123ija<\/p>\n

Ap\u0146em\u0161an\u0101s<\/strong>: l\u0113mums palikt, veidot un laika gait\u0101 izv\u0113l\u0113ties kop\u012bgu j\u0113gu<\/p>\n

Agr\u012bn\u0101 m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 bie\u017ei domin\u0113 kaisle. Laikam ejot, ja viss att\u012bst\u0101s labi, aug intimit\u0101te. Ta\u010du ap\u0146em\u0161an\u0101s \u2014 nevis k\u0101 miglains sol\u012bjums, bet k\u0101 atk\u0101rtota prakse \u2014 ir tas, kas notur visu kop\u0101, kad kaisle norimst un intimit\u0101te tiek p\u0101rbaud\u012bta.<\/p>\n

Daudzas attiec\u012bbas nebeidzas t\u0101p\u0113c, ka m\u012blest\u012bba b\u016btu bijusi \u201cviltota\u201d. T\u0101s beidzas t\u0101p\u0113c, ka viens trijst\u016bra st\u016bris pav\u0101jin\u0101s, un cilv\u0113ki \u0161o izmai\u0146u interpret\u0113 k\u0101 pier\u0101d\u012bjumu, ka viss ir beidzies, nevis k\u0101 inform\u0101ciju par to, kam nepiecie\u0161ama uzman\u012bba.<\/p>\n

P\u0101ris k\u0101 tre\u0161\u0101 vien\u012bba<\/h3>\n

Eksistenci\u0101l\u0101 terapija s\u0101kas ar vienk\u0101r\u0161u premisu: m\u0113s neesam izol\u0113ti \u201ces\u201d, kuri v\u0113l\u0101k \u201cpieliek kl\u0101t\u201d attiec\u012bbas. M\u016bs veido attiec\u012bbas. Un, kad es sastopos ar p\u0101ri, es nesatiekos tikai ar diviem cilv\u0113kiem blakus \u2014 es satiekos ar koprad\u012btu sist\u0113mu.<\/p>\n

Es bie\u017ei dom\u0101ju par p\u0101ra konstrukciju<\/strong> k\u0101 par tre\u0161o vien\u012bbu, kas dz\u012bvo starp diviem cilv\u0113kiem: kop\u012bgu noz\u012bmju lauku, pie\u0146\u0113mumiem, lom\u0101m, bail\u0113m un ritu\u0101liem. Tai ir sava v\u0113sture. Savi noteikumi (bie\u017ei neizrun\u0101ti). Savs veids, k\u0101 organiz\u0113t realit\u0101ti.<\/p>\n

Liela da\u013ca terapeitisk\u0101 darba ir padar\u012bt \u0161o neredzamo arhitekt\u016bru redzamu:<\/p>\n

lomas, kas tika pie\u0161\u0137irtas, nevis izv\u0113l\u0113tas<\/p>\n

aizvainojumi, kas k\u013cuva par ieradumiem<\/p>\n

\u201cvieno\u0161an\u0101s\u201d, kuras neviens vairs neatceras sl\u0113dzam<\/p>\n

Kad p\u0101ri sp\u0113j paskat\u012bties uz \u0161o konstrukciju \u2014 nevis tikai vainot viens otru \u2014 saruna bie\u017ei p\u0101rvietojas no \u201ctu vienm\u0113r \/ tu nekad\u201d uz kaut ko lietder\u012bg\u0101ku: ko m\u0113s esam uzb\u016bv\u0113ju\u0161i starp mums, un vai tas joproj\u0101m kalpo tam, par ko v\u0113lamies k\u013c\u016bt?<\/p>\n

\"The
Ren\u0113 Magrita glezna \u201cM\u012blnieki\u201d<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Ko m\u012blest\u012bba prasa praks\u0113<\/h3>\n

Ja romantisms saka, ka m\u012blest\u012bba ir saj\u016bta, kas j\u0101atrod, tad eksistenci\u0101lais skat\u012bjums ir maz\u0101k mierino\u0161s un iztur\u012bg\u0101ks: m\u012blest\u012bba ir nost\u0101ja, ko j\u0101ie\u0146em.<\/p>\n

\u0160\u012b nost\u0101ja izpau\u017eas maz\u0101s, neglam\u016br\u012bg\u0101s izv\u0113l\u0113s: k\u0101 tu interpret\u0113 partneri gr\u016bt\u0101 dien\u0101, vai tu pie\u0146em \u013caunpr\u0101t\u012bbu vai nogurumu, vai tu sp\u0113j palikt kl\u0101teso\u0161s, nevis uzreiz b\u016bv\u0113t aizsardz\u012bbu. Bie\u017ei vism\u012blo\u0161\u0101kais solis nav grandioza pie\u0137er\u0161an\u0101s, bet interpret\u0101cijas d\u0101snums \u2014 labtic\u012bbas pie\u0146\u0113mums br\u012bd\u012b, kad tava nervu sist\u0113ma aicina pie\u0146emt slikt\u0101ko.<\/p>\n

Pauls Tillihs aprakst\u012bja m\u012blest\u012bbas darbu caur klaus\u012b\u0161anos, do\u0161anu un piedo\u0161anu. Sec\u012bbai ir noz\u012bme. Klaus\u012b\u0161an\u0101s nav pas\u012bva. Int\u012bm\u0101s attiec\u012bb\u0101s klaus\u012bties, vienlaikus negatavojot pretuzbrukumu, ir discipl\u012bnas forma. Un tas ir pamats, uz kura do\u0161ana un piedo\u0161ana var patie\u0161\u0101m notikt, nevis tikt piepras\u012btas.<\/p>\n

Seksualit\u0101te, intimit\u0101te un sp\u0113ja tikt ieraudz\u012btam<\/h3>\n

Sekss bie\u017ei tiek trakt\u0113ts vai nu k\u0101 snieguma r\u0101d\u012bt\u0101js, vai probl\u0113ma, ko j\u0101atrisina. Eksistenci\u0101li tas ir atkl\u0101jo\u0161\u0101ks. Seksualit\u0101te ir viena no viet\u0101m, kur satiekas v\u0113lme, ievainojam\u012bba, iemiesot\u012bba un kauns.<\/p>\n

Kl\u012bniskaj\u0101 darb\u0101 es cen\u0161os to apl\u016bkot bez patologiz\u0113\u0161anas. Nevis \u201ckas ar tevi nav k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101?\u201d, bet: ko tev izraisa tuv\u012bba? ko noz\u012bm\u0113 b\u016bt v\u0113l\u0113tam? cik tev maks\u0101 tikt ieraudz\u012btam?<\/p>\n

Jo dzi\u013ca intimit\u0101te nav tehnika. T\u0101 ir gatav\u012bba: b\u016bt kl\u0101teso\u0161am, maz\u0101k aizsarg\u0101tam, paties\u0101kam. T\u0101 ir da\u013ca, no kuras cilv\u0113ki baid\u0101s \u2014 un kuru vi\u0146i visbie\u017e\u0101k grib visvair\u0101k.<\/p>\n

Visd\u0101sn\u0101k\u0101 gaida<\/h3>\n

Te ir neromantiska paties\u012bba, kas bie\u017ei pal\u012bdz: iev\u0113rojama da\u013ca laika kop\u0101 b\u016bs gr\u016bta. Ne t\u0101p\u0113c, ka tu izv\u0113l\u0113jies nepareizi, bet t\u0101p\u0113c, ka divi nepiln\u012bgi cilv\u0113ki m\u0113\u0123ina uzb\u016bv\u0113t kop\u012bgu dz\u012bvi parasta stresa iek\u0161ien\u0113: nauda, nogurums, p\u0101rpratumi, vecas br\u016bces, atk\u0101rtoti s\u012bkumi.<\/p>\n

Gottmana p\u0113t\u012bjumi liecina, ka daudzi konflikti ir past\u0101v\u012bgi \u2014 tie nepaz\u016bd, tos iem\u0101c\u0101s p\u0101rvald\u012bt. P\u0101ri, kas noturas, nav tie, kuri likvid\u0113 berzi. Tie ir tie, kuri apg\u016bst sal\u0101p\u012b\u0161anu: k\u0101 atgriezties p\u0113c p\u0101rr\u0101vuma, k\u0101 m\u012bkstin\u0101ties, nevis eskal\u0113t, k\u0101 atgriezties bez punktu skait\u012b\u0161anas.<\/p>\n

Gaidas uz gr\u016bt\u012bb\u0101m \u2014 nevis gaidas uz past\u0101v\u012bgu vieglumu \u2014 var b\u016bt r\u016bpju forma. Tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka tu izv\u0113l\u0113jies cilv\u0113ku realit\u0101t\u0113, nevis fant\u0101zij\u0101.<\/p>\n

Izv\u0113l\u0113ties palikt<\/h3>\n

Terapijas m\u0113r\u0137is (individu\u0101ls vai p\u0101ru darbs) nav harmonija. Tas ir autentisks kontakts: sp\u0113ja sastapt paties\u012bbu, nosaukt notieko\u0161o un izv\u0113l\u0113ties ar atv\u0113rt\u0101m ac\u012bm.<\/p>\n

Ja kaut kas no \u0161\u012b \u0161\u0137iet paz\u012bstams \u2014 ja tu atpaz\u012bsti savus mode\u013cus, bet nesp\u0113j tos atlaist; ja jaut\u0101jumi ir skaidri, bet atbildes iestr\u0113gu\u0161as \u2014 terapija var notur\u0113t \u0161o darbu: nevis \u201csalabot\u201d cilv\u0113ku, bet ieraudz\u012bt to, kas darbojies tums\u0101, un papla\u0161in\u0101t izv\u0113li.<\/p>\n

Mana Ya pihi irakema versija nav romantiska \u201cpies\u0101r\u0146o\u0161an\u0101s\u201d k\u0101 skaists nejau\u0161ums. T\u0101 ir \u0161\u0101da: ieraudz\u012bt pilno ainu \u2014 mantotos mode\u013cus, past\u0101v\u012bg\u0101s nepiln\u012bbas, vietas, kur j\u016bs abi k\u013c\u016bstat gr\u016bti m\u012blami \u2014 un izv\u0113l\u0113ties, apzin\u0101ti un atk\u0101rtoti, palikt.<\/p>\n

K\u0101 rakst\u012bja Erihs Fromms: \u201cM\u012blest\u012bba nav kaut kas dabisks\u2026 T\u0101 nav saj\u016bta; t\u0101 ir prakse.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u0101 ir m\u012blest\u012bba, kurai es uzticos. Un t\u0101 ir m\u012blest\u012bba, ko es pal\u012bdzu cilv\u0113kiem b\u016bv\u0113t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

K\u0101p\u0113c ar \u201c\u012bpa\u0161o saj\u016btu\u201d nepietiek un kas parasti notur attiec\u012bbas, t\u0101 viet\u0101 Ir fr\u0101ze, ko pied\u0113v\u0113 janomami (Amazones pamatiedz\u012bvot\u0101ju tautai), pie kuras es atkal un atkal atgrie\u017eos, jo t\u0101 nosauc to, ko m\u0113s parasti romantiz\u0113jam, nevis atpaz\u012bstam: Ya pihi irakema \u2014 \u201cEsmu ticis pies\u0101r\u0146ots ar tavu b\u016bt\u012bbu.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7514,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[366],"tags":[1590,1578,391,1582,616,688,651,703,1586,1574,686,1576,1577,1588,1581,1584,1587,1583,1579,1572,1589,1573,1571,828,1580,1585,1575,377],"class_list":["post-7523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-raksti","tag-apzinata-milestiba","tag-apzinata-partnera-izvele","tag-atkaribu-psihologs","tag-attiecibu-dinamika-paros","tag-attiecibu-konsultacijas-riga","tag-cik-maksa-psihoterapija","tag-dzive-pec-laulibas-skirsanas","tag-eksistenciala-konsultesana-lideriem","tag-eksistenciala-terapija-pariem","tag-eksistencials-skatijums-uz-milestibu","tag-individuala-psihoterapija-50-min-klatiene-tiessaiste-e-40","tag-ka-bernibas-pieredze-ietekme-partnerattiecibas","tag-ka-izveleties-piemerotu-partneri","tag-ka-labot-attiecibas-pec-konflikta","tag-ka-partraukt-atkartotus-attiecibu-modelus","tag-ka-saglabat-ilgtermina-attiecibas","tag-ka-tikt-gala-ar-pastavigiem-konfliktiem-attiecibas","tag-ka-veidot-emocionalu-tuvibu","tag-ka-veidot-noturigas-attiecibas","tag-kapec-ar-kimiju-nepietiek-milestiba","tag-kapec-atkartojas-toksiski-attiecibu-cikli","tag-kapec-attiecibas-izjuk-pat-ja-ir-milestiba","tag-kas-patiesiba-notur-attiecibas","tag-lauliba-un-pusmuza-krize","tag-milestiba-ka-prakse","tag-paru-terapija-attiecibu-jautajumiem","tag-piesaistes-modeli-pieauguso-attiecibas","tag-psihologa-konsultacijas"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7523","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7523"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7523\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7526,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7523\/revisions\/7526"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7514"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maxkarlin.com\/lv\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}